My friend and I were conversing, and I put “sexy” into words and why it made me uncomfortable. It is lightly edited from then.
"Sexy is commercial…that or a cheap, cheesy one-night-stand.
Sexy is not real…perhaps because media has procured the rights to its manipulation.
Sexy is like the unattainable perfection that I’m not willing to find because it lies in a dark alleyway…waiting to descend upon an unsuspecting prey.
Anyhow, I was always teased for my looks growing up. I prefer to make less physical judgment calls on people…so that’s why it makes me uncomfortable.”